Here we are in a fresh New Year, filled with hopes and dreams of where you want to be by the end of 2018.
And you may be putting a program in place to lose weight, or manage your money better, or finally meet the soulmate of your dreams.
And I 100% support you to take these steps and be your best self!
But as your coach, I know the heartbreaking statistics out there – that by the third week of this New Year most of us will have fallen off the wagon, gotten off track, and back into our usual routine – which brings us the same results.
Why does this happen? Why are we so flailingly human??
Because it is your ego’s job to make sure everything stays the same.
And it’s not because your ego is BAD – this is a very important job.
You see, your ego is a safety mechanism that has your safety (and making sure you don’t know what is in your Shadow or Unconscious Mind) as its top priority.
If you start doing something different, the ego’s red flag goes up, because trying new things feel uncomfortable, and sometimes downright scary and threatening to you, so it will sabotage you at every turn to keep you safe.
The only way to make lasting change is to give yourself the gift of loving support so your ego can feel comfortable while you try something new.
That support can come in a number of ways, and of course hiring a caring, understanding coach that knows your situation is probably the best support you can give yourself.
And I know you are looking at a LOT of coaches’ websites, and free information, webinars, and articles.
And here is my ONE NEW YEAR’S TIP for you:
Whatever you do – pick ONE coach, or ONE program, or ONE book to follow and work with until you get past your ego, apply everything you learn into your life and develop new habits.
Otherwise, your ego will keep you spinning from one shiny object to the next, and at the end of the year you will have made little or no progress – all because your ego is doing its best to keep the status quo.
And it will have you believing that you will change if you just find the right shiny object – but of course, it will keep you searching and searching for the right one and never finding it.
The truth is, you can gather all the knowledge that you like, read as much as you want, listen to as many webinars as you come across, but if you don’t APPLY what you are learning and EMBODY it, it does you NO GOOD. It’s as good as “in one ear and out the other.”
That’s why having someone to help you stay on track – a coach to guide you through your changes and soothe your ego – is the best thing you can do for yourself if you are seriously committed to making the change.
I have lots of tips for losing weight and making money, but you know me as your Shadow coach and Relationship coach – the one that knows how to create true MIRACLES in your life! So if you seriously want to make a BIG shift in your relationship life this year, I would be honored if you choose me to be your support.
If you are so moved, schedule a free consultation on my online calendar here to see if we are a good match for working together.
I look forward to hearing from you!